a product life cycle of a relationship

it is strange but true there is product life cycle of relation- in our day in and day out we witness this and we sometimes notice sometimes not- everything works with a system- even a small debacle takes place with a beauty of an organised WBS (Work based structure they call it in operations- where work is decomposed into several small small works) it starts with lot of hope- bunch of joy - so many dreams hover around it. it creates hopes- tells lot of future possibilities - suddenly realisation flashes out and it gets gloomy. suddenly two sides of relation gets agonised about all the stake holders - positive or negative when the dream period gets over. it is the high time to rethink and when anybody misses that - it starts collision . It is the fun of the relation that whenever both are not in same phase of a relation both feels stressed and clashes start in a form or other. this can be any relation - be it lover's be it a friend's or a relative , husband wife. the worst part in this product life cycle when it overlaps other life cycle - any other relation's life cycle.. like if it is a friend's life cycle overlaps with other relation. Then it gets more tragic where nobody could be blamed but the fate. End of a relations life cycle ends other relation as well and sometimes people compel to do that as they cant distinguish two or make these two relations coexist. Life is a great master as he teaches you from experience and when you refuse to take lesson he teaches you again.

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/home/sunday-times/neither-ill-nor-in-distress-yet-this-couple-wants-to-die/articleshow/62583973.cms Why this couple wants to die? For a person in his middle age when he has just crossed his youth ..still the memories are burning,still so many dreams to be fulfilled ,it is very difficult to fathom for him. why they want to die? the world is so beautiful- so many things to explore, so many things to dream about- so many failure to learn from- why does this couple wants to die? I guess they don't have any dream left- no hope left a person will never want to die if he has any hope left for himself or around anybody close to him or her. he will never want to leave the world if he know he has things to do . it is very difficult to express one's mind when he is frustrated - it seems that his mind is closed -closed to accept any new things -new challenges-to foresee any new future. Then he wants to leave this world it was in fact my one of first posts 9 years back where I wanted to thurst on why does a person get dragged to the point of desperation so much that he wants to take such extreme step. Life is strange where everybody knows the final fate but still wants to live.. That is basic tenet of life where he wants to play a hide and seek game with death till the point he can as he gets the fun- he gets the fun from dream, future, hopes etc. so it is very necessary to live with hope, dream and changeable future- I wish everybody lives in this way- even a person lives in Syria should live with a hope of future. that is what life is all about-